"WITHOUT HONESTY THERE IS ONLY SURVIVAL!"

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WHO THE FUCK IS ALEK?

1973 born on the 21.2.1973 in Luxembourg & abandoned by my biological mother

1973 raised by my grandmother 

1980 terribly bullied at school for being gay, mostly from closeted gay teachers

1982 started working for the family business at nine

1984 started figure skating

1988 acted in a "Francois Ozon" film, Paris

1989 athletic award (Medaille de Merit) by our Monarch

1989 left school at 16 without a degree

1989 escaped to the USA (Dallas & Los Angeles) for over five years

1993 toured with Holiday in Ice

1994 certified as Personal Trainer, London 

1998 owned three Streetwear stores, Cologne

1999 acted in "Verbotene Liebe" Cologne

2004 responsible for a 24 million pound account (Ralph Lauren) Harrods, London

2006 founded "Freshface" recruitment, London

2006 certified in reflective coaching, London

2007 built "Duckdeluxe" Agency, Paris

2009 my grandmother died & my life changed drastically within 21 days

2009 my family abandoned me, including my grandfather the man I used to call "Papa"

2009 my business associate embezzled from me 

2009 I lost my income & my business

2009 found out who my real father was 

2009 abandoned my dog Charlie, history repeating itself!

2009 I lost all sense of self & was unable to protect myself, I became helpless

2009 I became suicidal & self-inflicted HIV

2009 I started abusing Drugs for seven years

2010 NEEDED to Escort to SURVIVE, Total Mind fuck

2013 homeless until 2017

2016 stopped being a victim & took control 

2016 implemented "TOTAL HONESTY" into my life

2017 toured Europe as a Masseur & Personal Trainer 

2017 published my book "The Loss of Self" on Amazon

2018 restarted coaching after a nine-year absence

2019 started the "BETTER CHILDHOOD PROJECT

2019 made my experience bigger than myself, by helping others to face their lives

ARE YOU ADDICTED TO MISERY?

“Always keep in mind, that feelings aren’t real, they are your cravings & patterns pushing you to repeat bad habits.” 

Alek Ivar

NOT EVERYONE QUALIFIES FOR MY COACHING

It is for the VISIONARIES, & PIONEERS who no longer want to LIVE IN A LIE.

For those who DARE to be REAL and face their lives once and for all,

by SPEAKING and acting the TRUTH.

TO  LIVE AN HONEST LIFE!

For the ones who dare to CHALLENGE THEMSELVES. 

To no longer SHUT UP when you should SPEAK.

To finally have HONEST & PRODUCTIVE  RELATIONSHIPS.

For those that are TIRED of embellishing their lives but rather FACE their shit straight on and live a

FREE LIFE WITHOUT ANYBODIES CONSENT.

TO ACCEPT THE PAST, not forget the past.

TO FORGIVE YOURSELF, because you might not be able to forgive others.

TO ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE, talents & downfalls equally & make THE BEST of it.

YOU COULD BENEFIT FROM COACHING IF YOU ANSWER YES 

  • Do you ever feel that you are creating problems when your life is in order?

  • Did you have to take on too many responsibilities as a child and grow up too fast?

  • Did you have an alcoholic parent?

  • Does your current or past relationships remind you of your mother or father or both?

  • Do you dislike being like one of your parents?

  • Do you feel incompetent and unworthy?

  • Do you feel tired all the time?

  • Are you currently in a toxic relationship?

  • Are you settling?

  • Are you overeating?

  • Are you in control of your finances?

  • Are you in control over your decisions?

  • Do you ever feel like you are living your partner's or someone else's life?

  • Are you independent?

  • Are you in NEED of attention?

  • Do you need someone neutral to speak to?

  • DO YOU TRULY KNOW WHO YOU ARE?

MY WINNING COMBO

I coach what I know from and through experience. 

I didn’t just get my coaching certification.

I actually lived through everything I coach, from building my own successful companies to relocating too 8 countries & speaking 4 languages.

 

I also know how it feels first hand losing it all & how hard & impossible if feels climbing back up after:

  • Trauma

  • Death

  • Loss

  • HIV

  • Addicted to misery

  • Steroid abuse

  • Victim Role

  • Sexual Rejection

  • Poverty

  • Homelessness

  • Drug Abuse

  • Hating myself 

  • Being a minority because of my sexuality

  • Emotional abuse 

  • Abandonment through my mother at birth

  • Mother or Father issues

  • Childhood adversity

  • Not belonging

  • Self Destructive behaviour

  • Co-dependency & so much more...


After seven horrid years of utter self-destructive behaviour, I decided to heal and get better and that combined with daily steps and time made it happen.

I never gave up, I never stopped asking questions.

I can do it & so can you.

THE CHOICE IS YOURS!

My University is LIFE

INVEST IN YOURSELF!

Alek Ivar  +491573-2701819     alekivar@icloud.com       ©2022 by Alek Ivar.     Coaching agreement  DisclaimerAlek Ivar

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